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Lack of clear boundaries during childhood
When a mother gives herself entirely and neglects herself, the child can develop an asymmetrical relationship: receiving without learning to reciprocate.
Psychology is clear: setting limits does not break the bond, it strengthens it.
Projection of personal frustrations
In adulthood, some children project onto their mothers:
their failures
their insecurities,
their own decisions that failed.
It is easier to blame the one who has always been there than to take responsibility.